When a couple is going through a divorce, a nasty courtroom battle is not the only option for dissolving the marriage. Mediation is another method that is a good option for some couples.
Before deciding which method is best, couples should understand what the benefits are of mediation as well as some of the reasons why it may not be a good choice.
Benefits of mediation
According to FindLaw, using a mediator to help negotiate a divorce agreement is beneficial because it puts the couple in more control of the outcome. A neutral third-party allows both sides the opportunity and time to speak and discuss what their priorities are. A mediator also helps to creatively resolve issues, so the process is usually less emotionally stressful than litigation.
One of the biggest benefits of mediation is it is less expensive than going through the court. Mediation also tends to last a shorter time than litigation, although the total time depends on the complexity of the case and the willingness of both parties to work together.
Disadvantages of mediation
According to Money Crashers, not every couple is a good fit for mediation, and there are some disadvantages in certain situations. Although couples do not need to get along for mediation to work, each spouse must be willing to communicate and go through the process. If there is not honesty and a willingness to compromise, mediation is probably not a good choice.
If there is abuse or violence in the relationship, mediation is typically not the path to take because the court system can offer more protection. If one spouse suffers from addiction, mediation is also not recommended. Those with addictive personalities often lack judgment and are unwilling to compromise.
